To give you a little background, I have some family that called me (no names) that are not Mormons, that were very offended by some things that were said about my family and faith. I am writing this to make sure that they don’t waste any more thoughts or time worrying about what someone says about me…
Now moving on, let me explain something…I am a Mormon. I am well aware of the stigma, rumors, ups and downs that being a Mormon has and I accept that. Whether I agree with you or you agree with me, it makes no difference in how I live my life, other than being conscientious enough of what you believe to not intentionally offend or disrespect you.
Mormons are all over the media and have been since the foundation of the church. We have been in the news for a strong stance on defining marriage, potential presidential nominations, and things that our leaders say about homosexuality. But understand those things are such a minute part or my faith (though definitely still part), that they are almost irrelevant to me on a daily basis, even if it the only things that someone can bring up to describe Mormons.
I thought I would take the opportunity to define myself to anyone out there interested and in doing so, I could actually stir up contention between Mormons and Non-Mormons alike.
There is no such thing as a Mormon Jesus, the Jesus I believe in was born a Jew and died on the cross and was resurrected three days later. What he did after may differ from what you believe, but that is historical, there are many different perspectives…I have read many perspectives and chosen my own direction to believe. If you think I am wrong, so be it, I read many and decided what believe.
Secondly, I do not hate people who live homosexual lifestyles. I personally have no reason to deny, right to judge or preference with you “entertain,” “love,” or “cohabitate.” I do in fact have gay friends, who are very dear to me and whom I still have friendships. I do not wish to deny any rights pertaining to couples from anyone who lives that lifestyle. HOWEVER, I have always believed AND NOT BASED ON BEING A MORMON, that “TRADITIONAL” marriage is between a man and a woman. If that confuses you or you think that somehow having both views I am screwed up, I am ok with that.
On a side note, those that are overly descriptive or public share their sexual escapades whether gay straight or whatever, I have a problem with. I believe in being morally chaste and monogamous in a one on one relationship. I think the topic overall falls in the abortion, politics, religion realm. You agree to disagree and walk away with respect for someone standing by what they believe.
Next, my religion is to help me raise children with hope and at the same time accountability. I believe that my family is more important than anything else in this world. I believe that for me Mormanism, has so many wonderful things to offer to help me raise children in a world whose morals are constantly degrading. I have made my choice for them. I am not brainwashing my kids or forcing some crazy cult-like system into their lives. You may disagree, but, again, I am ok with that.
So, please, don’t waste any of your precious time here in mortality, praying that I will come around. Don’t waste time looking for references to prove me wrong or try and draw me into and argument. Use what time you feel you have available to become a better you…I promise, I will keep working on me.
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