I just want to make a plea to everyone out there, don’t be fickle. For those of you who don’t know what fickle is, let me explain.
Someone who is fickle is someone who is someone who flip-flops back and forth between their loyalties based on who they feel about you that day. If they are happy with you they will defend and share with you. If they are unhappy with you, they may backbite you or ask you to return last year’s birthday present.
The problem with fickle friends, is you usually don’t realize who they are until you have made them unhappy. My frustration with this characteristic really isn’t the realization that someone is a toad, but the feeling of time wasted on developing that relationship.
Is that fickle of me? I wish I was never your friend because you aren’t my friend anymore?
I think that we have lost track of sincerity and compassion as a whole. I think if you are willing or wanting to do something for someone, it shouldn’t be conditional. We should do things because it is the right thing to do and the right thing to do should never be undone because we are mad.
I’m just sayin’!
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